Saturday, January 29, 2011

39 weeks - things inside of other things




This week Tim (suddenly) discovered that things fit into other things. He has a toy snail (you can kind of see it in the last picture in the bottom right) that you can place various shaped blocks inside. And so this week he started putting things into it and taking things out. It's pretty cool to see him do it. He hasn't really worked out completely where the opening is, so sometimes he tries to stick stuff into the side of the snail or into its head and then gets frustrated. But we're getting there :)

Monday, January 24, 2011

5 years

Today is 5 years that we've been in Berlin. As usual here's a post to commemorate this occasion. As is also customary at this time we reflect on our choice to stay here, vs. going back to Aus. Right now we're (yet again) at crossroads. There are many pros and cons in either choice. We haven't decided anything and will probably decide and redecide again.

One thing I will write though is that this last year has been a wonderful year. Mainly of course because our little son was born and brought us so much happiness. Our respective parents were here to visit and have spent time with us and with their grandson. We had amazingly beautiful autumn and were very lucky to be able to go for so many walks and admire the outside world. Basically if I had to use one word to describe 2010 it would be 'family'.

Berlin has been kind to us and it is a good place to be no matter what.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Epithany

19th of January is the holiday of Epithany in Russia. My Dad has been diving into the ice cold waters three years in a row now (last year at -37 outside). Here is a picture of him from yesterday. The legs of the person behind him belong to my "little" bro, who dared the waters for the first time then. Needless to say that I'm very proud of them both :)

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Birthday, Kitas, Bedarfsplanung, 37 weeks and peekaboo!



Jack on his birthday :)

It's been a while since the last post. We've been crazily busy. With my summer semester quickly approaching we've been looking for a kindergarten for Timmy. So far with very little luck. You might think we're slack for living it to the last minute. Well I'll tell you that's not quite right. While I was still pregnant Jack went and looked at a bunch of kindergartens (or Kitas, as they're called here) and we got Tim onto waiting lists at two of them, for April 2011 as the starting time. We regularly called/emailed these kindergartens to make sure that they know we still need a place. Normally the intake happens in August, as older kids move onto school, and new groups are formed. We knew this before but got told that if someone moves or takes their child out of the group in the middle of the year, then we'll get a spot. Well nothing of the sort has happened, so we don't have a place for April. And now they're not even promising us a spot from August. Over the last two weeks I've called probably around 30 kindergartens in our area, further out, and even around my uni. No luck. We're now on about 5-6 waiting lists for August, but nothing for April. There might be a chance at a new Russian/German Kita, but they won't know until end of March and it's also about an hour away from us on public transport, "kind of" on the way to my uni and Jack's work, but that trip door to door (ie. home -> Kita -> work/uni) will take about 1.5 hours one way. Not so fun! So yeah - that's been a big pain in the butt.

Another thing that I recently discovered is that Berlin (and a number of other states) has a limited amount of doctors clinics that's regulated by the public health insurance authority. In other words you can't just finish studying your psych degree or medical degree and open private practice. The only way to come to own one is when someone else retires/sells, or if they lift the restriction on the number of clinics. And there are huge waiting lists for both options. This is petty rediculous, considering that people wait sometimes years to get into therapy. So naturally the prospect of studying for 8 years and then not be able to do what I want is not that shiny brilliant. At the moment I'm looking at what job opportunities will there be at the end of my study overall, but so far it's not looking great.

Timmy is growing. We're at 37 weeks now. He's 9 kgs and very much enjoying his solids. He's eating so well that recently I've been forgetting to breastfeed him. He has also started sleeping in his own room. We have converted the small room into a nursery and he seems to like it. He's been loving his swimming classes and even doesn't mind diving. Well, diving is not really exactly what he's doing, but either Jack or myself dunking him into the water. Some babies in the group are already starting to be able to kind of swim by themselves. It's pretty cool.




One thing that's been worrying us a little is that he's not showing any desire to crawl yet. He's rolling over fine and kind of does circular rolling when on his belly, but no getting up on his knees yet. He's also not showing any desire to "talk" yet - so no "bababa or dadada". So in the start of Feb we're going to our paediatrician and she's going to do a proper check of his development. Apart from not reaching these milestones he's his usual happy and bubbly self, so on that front I'm not worried, but still need reassurance that everything is fine.

Some photos from the last couple of weeks...












Tim has also finally started getting interested in peekaboo :)

Sunday, January 02, 2011

Happy New Year!!!

Happy new year to everyone! Baksheesh!!!




My parents are here from Novosibirsk and the five of us celebrated new year together, which was wonderful. I attempted Julia Child's goose recipe with plum and foie gras (duck liver) on a goose that we named Fedya (for no particular reason). Fedya turned out to be one pretty tasty goose, although we all decided that he was rather small... or we just ate too much too quickly. Mum and I also made Napoleon cake, and despite it being a bit too much on the rich side, it was still fairly edible.






We all dressed up and even Tim paraded in a little tail-coat :)











Even before midnight people outside already started on fireworks and at midnight the sky over Berlin just lit up for at least 30 minutes. Although the photos don't make it justice, here are some anyway...










We wish everyone health, happiness and much joy in 2011!!!